Just a reminder:

  • Submission is something that is given, not something that is taken.
  • Submission is not a permanent state- it is something that you can choose to take away at any time.
  • Safe words mean “No” and “Stop immediately.” They do not mean “Convince me” or “Try to change my mind.”

If you’re a sub and any Dom tries to convince you otherwise: do not trust them and get away from them immediately.